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I've had a thought recently and I'm interested to see what others think. So I've been trying my luck as a feedee recently and have seemingly run into a number of F feeders who charge some kind of tribute (ranging up to three hundred dollars) in order to become their feedee.

My initial reaction is that it's a scam, and it most likely is, but it got me thinking about the abundance of men in these online spaces. Yeah it's probably a scam but it does also make sense to charge a fee of some kind to weed out unserious people, especially since women feeders doubtlessly interact with a shit ton of male feedees who arent looking for serious relationships.

At the same time it makes sense that male feeders wouldn't do the same cause it's theres so many of them and it would be impossible to do that cause a feedee would just go to any of the other hundred of feeders on here.

Idk i just think the supply and demand aspect of it is interesting, especially in terms of how it has seemingly shaped the space.

You're saying you need to pay up to $300 to be fed or join a relationship of feeder/feedee? This. Is. Fucked Up!
So us feeders are supposed to fit the bill for our feedee's but those Feeders can't? I could see an entire community here getting outraged. The amount of time Feeders here have been asked/manipulated/scammed to feed a real feedee or a scammer would shock those other feeders. The audacity of us, majority male feeders, asking a feedee to pay up would get us laughed at and blacklisted.

I want to know where is this mindset to charge a feedee to pay for an experience? Is it because it is customary with OF culture? This is not how to make this lifestyle stick for people and know there are real experiences to have.

Not everything needs to be transactional 😒

I wouldn't entertain them if that's not what you're looking for.

Sounds like the feeders trying to charge a fee are failing to announce that they are trying to be a SW(sex worker) and charge for an experience rather than build an actual connection. If it's not what you're looking for I'd just say no thank you.

That aside there are still a lot of people in the community that are looking to build a genuine connection and relationship.

I get the frustration though. Finding something real is easier said than done. Most people here are just after sex or money via convenience. Though I have hope you can still find someone willing to actually be friends and lead to a real relationship in 2026 💀

I fully agree that people are in it for the wrong reasons sometimes. Like, I get that it costs money to feed a growing girl, but I feel like it’s taking advantage of people who are looking for genuine connection to try and extort money. Like a weird romance scam